| All men seek happiness. This is without exception. Whatever different means they employ, they all tend to this end. The cause of some going to war, and of others avoiding it, is the same desire in both, attended with different views. The will never takes the least step but to this object. This is the motive of every action of every man, even of those who hang themselves.1 |
| If you asked twenty good men today what they thought the highest of the virtues, nineteen of them would reply, Unselfishness. But if you asked almost any of the great Christians of old he would have replied, Love. You see what has happened? A negative term has been substituted for a positive, and this is of more than philological importance. The negative ideal of Unselfishness carries with it the suggestion not primarily of securing good things for others, but of going without them ourselves, as if our abstinence and not their happiness was the important point. I do not think this is the Christian virtue of Love. The New Testament has lots to say about self-denial, but not about self-denial as an end in itself. We are told to deny ourselves and to take up our crosses in order that we may follow Christ; and nearly every description of what we shall ultimately find if we do so contains an appeal to desire. |
| If there lurks in most modern minds the notion that to desire our own good and earnestly to hope for the enjoyment of it is a bad thing, I submit that this notion has crept in from Kant and the Stoics and is no part of the Christian faith. Indeed, if we consider the unblushing promises of reward and the staggering nature of the rewards promised in the Gospels, it would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.2 |
| to "love mercy" (not just do it, Micah 6:8), |
| to "show mercy with cheerfulness" ( Romans 12:8), |
| to suffer loss "with joy" in the service of prisoners ( Hebrews 10:34), |
| to be cheerful giver ( 2 Corinthians 9:7), |
| to make our joy the joy of others ( 2 Corinthians 2:3), |
| to tend the flock of God willingly and eagerly ( 1 Peter 5:2), and |
| to keep watch over souls "with joy" ( Hebrews 13:17). |
| Piper might be able to alter the first answer in the Westminster Shorter Catechism -- so that glorifying and enjoying God becomes glorifying by enjoying the deity -- to suit his hedonistic purposes, but it is a little more difficult to alter the opening lines of the Heidelberg Catechism: That I, with body and soul, both in life and death, am not my own but belong unto my faithful Savior Jesus Christ . . ."7 |
| l. The longing to be happy is a universal human experience, and it is good, not sinful. |
| 2. We should never try to deny or resist our longing to be happy, as though it were a bad impulse. Instead we should seek to intensify this longing and nourish it with whatever will provide the deepest and most enduring satisfaction. |
| 3. The deepest and most enduring happiness is found only in God. |
| 4. The happiness we find in God reaches its consummation when it is shared with others in the manifold ways of love. |
| 5. To the extent we try to abandon the pursuit of our own pleasure, we fail to honor God and love people. Or, to put it positively: the pursuit of pleasure is a necessary part of all worship and virtue. That is, |
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